Her Positive Legacy

The Path Back To Self: Part 1: Is This Mine To Carry?

Angie Lisowski Season 2 Episode 3

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In this deeply honest episode of Her Positive Legacy, Angie explores the emotional weight of being “the fixer” — the person who constantly carries the needs, emotions, and problems of everyone around them.


Through personal reflection and practical insight, “Is This Mine to Carry?” dives into the uncomfortable but transformative work of learning the difference between supporting others and taking responsibility for them. Angie shares the powerful four-word question that has helped her begin stepping out of over-functioning, people-pleasing, and emotional exhaustion:


Is this mine to carry?


This episode is for anyone who feels responsible for keeping the peace, holding everything together, or fixing what was never theirs to fix in the first place.


Together, we explore:


* Why the fixer role becomes wired into us

* The connection between helping and self-worth

* How guilt shows up when we stop over-carrying

* The difference between love-based helping and fear-based helping

* Learning to trust yourself without over-managing everyone else


A gentle, grounding conversation about boundaries, self-trust, emotional healing, and the legacy we leave when we finally learn to put down what isn’t ours.


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